17.2.13

Lava Petition

     An analogy I like about life is the lava lamp. The electric heat is the spirit and energy that powers life. The glass case represents life itself. Colored wax symbolizes our energy and focus on physical objects, blessings, hope, and prayers.  When you're first born, everything is stagnant at the bottom. However, gradually life begins to flow through you, giving you energy and excitement. Willingly or not, the heat and light given off by your life impacts others.
     The wax represents our focused energy in life - of which there is a limited amount. From a Christian perspective, the following paragraphs directly apply, but since prayer is instrumental in many other religions, the application can be applied less stringently than intended.
     The energy of life is difficult to control since our power waxes and wanes as circumstances in life change. Nonetheless, the total amount remains fixed. Religiously, as the heated wax floats to the top of the glass, it represents our prayers seeking aid, relief, or hope with our circumstances in life. As the wax-bubble-prayers reach the apex of the glass, they cool and will eventually fall back to the bottom. The descending flow of wax  corresponds to the answers to prayer: blessings, learning experiences, and opportunities. The more of life's energies in God's hands, the less influence has our own will and power. If prayer is going up in giant blobs, fast and furious under the pressures of life's troubles, few blessings appear to rain down. Correlation? People become more religious during difficult times. Conversely, as perfectly exhibited in the book of Judges in the Bible, when God sends lots of blessings down, almost no prayer continues upwards; people reject God in the good times. One puzzle with prayer is when the request's answer is delayed. The analogy contains a response to this as well: wax bubbles can hover in the middle, committing neither to the main blob at the bottom nor the fluctuating collection at the top. The answer to these prayers is "wait," and the answer will eventually succumb to fulfillment.
     Right when things seem the worst and the effort of praying becomes taxing, huge blessings come down. We then forget God altogether aside from small, almost absent-minded prayers. Soon life becomes challenging once more which prompts prayers up to God, and the cycle repeats.
     Other applications can be drawn from the endless cycle of heated wax trapped in a silicon prison. The dyed wax also represents interaction with other people. The more extroverted we live our life, the less we keep to ourselves, but people are more likely to throw that interaction back your way, keeping life charged. The size of the blobs is analogous to the importance and regularly of your relationship.
     Military strategy and alternate applications use resource management. If the reserve force's size diminishes, the application of applied forces increases because of the direct correlation. As the use of one resource goes up, the availability of its source decreases.
     The next time you're idly watching the clock tick, the fire burn, or the fly buzz look for a lesson. Remember that heated wax teaches about prayer, social interaction, and the limitation of resources. No analogy is perfect, yet despite its flaws, a lava lamp, when pondered carefully, can capably inform.

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Agatha Tyche

3.2.13

Hakuna Matata

     A phrase famous since the release of Disney's "The Lion King" (1994) is "Hakuna Matata." This translates, literally, to "There are no worries" from Swahili. We have little enough control on the events and circumstances of our own life, yet we try to influence the outcome to the best of our abilities. Sometimes, it's ok, it's good, to let go and move on.
     All relationships end one way or another. Death, distance, school changes, habits, occupations, and belief  all cost in relationship value. Whether this affects family, friends, neighbors, coworkers, or schoolmates - with change, some relationships will fade or end and others grow more robust and prominent.
     The most difficult relationship to sever is a relationship of the heart, even more so when you are not the one that wished that relationship to end. Your efforts failed in some way even if you strove with every ounce to retain the knot as the strings pulled farther away. The hardest part after losing that fight is moving on.
     After realizing it's the end and that no actions can change what happened, skipping the rest of the recovery steps can be good or bad (ask your local psychiatrist). I like to apply the example of "The Lion King" and put my past behind me. You can't change it, so move on and continue life. The "don't worry, be happy" mentality avoids the anger, hate, fear, and bitterness of a bad break up and allows you to forget about the pain a lot sooner, as exhibited by Simba with his father's death. This mentality should eventually lead to a process of forgiveness. Without this you cannot truly move on. Forgiveness is the ability to understand and use the knowledge painfully earned to improve yourself and aid others in their own pain.
     The most that can be added to that is that learning from past mistakes to avoid repetition is the true mark of matured experience and will eventually lead to wisdom if properly cultivated. "Forgive and forget" heals pain much faster than letter it simmer for years with constant fear of it boiling over into the rest of your life.
So, don't worry, be happy!


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Agatha Tyche